"Sounds like my ex."
"Sounds like my situation."
"I went through the same thing."
So it felt good for people to understand what I was feeling. Like I wasn't alone.
But then I wanted to know more. I wanted to know more about how people handled their ex, their situation, or their "same thing."
I mean, what made you walk away? We women take a LOT of shyt from dudes. I'm sure we can relate to Beyonce's lyrics:
I thought, that you did everything right
No lies, no wrong
Boy I, must've been outta my mind
So when I think of the time that I almost loved you
You showed your ass and I saw the real you
Thank God you blew it
Thank God I dodged the bullet
I'm so over you
So baby good lookin' out
Especially that "showed your ass" part.
When it's playing in my car, I sing that part as loud as I fuggin' can ---
WITH the windows down,
and my hands twirlin',
and my head movin' back and forth.
I be in full SISTA GYRL mode for real on that joint. LOL.
(gettin' off track)
Ok, ok. So this is what I wanna do. I wanna ask others...
what made you say that you finally had enough?
How many times did he/she let you down, cheat, lie, be mean and you just had to walk away?
Or was it him/her that walked away? Why?
Or maybe it wasn't him/her? Maybe it was you and you let him/her down?
Did you fall out of love? Meet someone new? Did you just lose the spark and know that you just couldn't go on with him/her anymore?
(light bulb moment)
Hmmm, I got an idea! But let's see what happens with this post first.
Thanks for reading about my chit y'all. I seem to talk about any damn thing. Freely (maybe too freely). Who woulda thought I would have the guts to do so? It's official!
I'm all growed up.